Now your finger is out stretched, Prepared to hit the speed dial or send another text message. If feels futile, after all, your ex hasn't returned your previous 12 calls and messages. You feel desperate, its no surprise if truly you loved him. slightly pathetic and that makes your unhappiness start to boil.
Surely your answer is easier than you imagined. First, you need to pull yourself out of the wallow and the confusion of all of the emotion so you can approach this issue with clarity. There are words, irresistible words that can compel people(your ex) to act and engage positively.
You need to learn these words but first, be very certain that you don't use the wrong words with the wrong approach or you could make things far worse. what i'm about to show you are two(2) approaches that will generate negative results, 90% of the time.
Please You Must Never, Ever do this:
The Pleading Approach- Any approach you make like this; "Harry, why aren't you returning my calls. I have called thrice. Please call me. I really need to talk with you."
The Exigency Approach- inventing some sort of emergency like this, "Harry, it's urgent that you call me. It' can't wait. Please call me as soon as possible".
As you read through those words, don't they seem kind of pathetic? How could this approach ever work?
Here are Words that Work Nearly 100% of the Time:
In a few words, it's "brain teasing". Words that appeal to a people's curiosity and their ego. As soon as you find these words and are able to apply them rightly, the outcome is Great. Still more powerful is when you combine them in one approach like this:
With a calm, slightly cheery tone, "Hi "Harry, It's Jane. I've been thinking about what you did and how it really helped me and I want to let you know that I am grateful. Please call so I can thank-you in person."
Brainteasers, when used rightly are compelling, powerful and, as in the case here, will put you(anyone) in a positive light. Can you imagine Harry not calling Jane back?
If you choose to learn it, they will call. But you know you will have to be careful!. If you aren't prepared with a complete strategyic plan you may fall on your face and miss this golden opportunity with your ex. You need to know the exact words to say when he returns your call. So What is it he did for you of which you're grateful? Can you make it sound real and inviting? What can you do to get your Ex to return your calls and messages? What are the next steps? They need to be accurate and calculated.
If this is the man for you, don't give up. There are proven methods to get back your ex.
Bad mistakes can ruin your relationship for good. To avoid these fatal mistakes, you need proven steps to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him. What you should and shouldn't do can be found at this Helpful Site
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
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